Saturday, December 10, 2011

A poem for Her...called Believe

Believe

My heart is weak, my soul is deep with words I cannot speak
But, would you listen, if I spoke out loud,
Will you understand,
And believe what I am saying is true
I prefer to show you through my actions
Take you through a journey of my thoughts
So when my words are spoke
Walls are broken
I welcome you inside of my heart
I speak,
But I will you hear me,
No words are spoken back
Do you not hear me
How much I care
How much I want to be there
Through
Thick and thin,
Don't take my soft heart,
For granted
Do you not see my passionate through my action,
Or do you not care
Do you not feel my caring heart
I don't know how much more
To say,
To make you believe in me
My heart is weak, my soul is deep
With words I cannot speak
Do you believe

Jar of Hearts

No, I can't take one more step towards you
'Cause all that's waiting is regret
Don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore
You lost the love I loved the most

I learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are?

I hear you're asking all around
If I am anywhere to be found
But I have grown too strong
To ever fall back in your arms

I've learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are?

Dear, It took so long just to feel all right
Remember how to put back the light in my eyes
I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed
'Cause you broke all your promises
And now you're back
You don't get to get me back

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
Don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

Who do you think you are?

Who do you think you are?

Who do you think you are?

venting blog

Last night having a conversation with my best friend, she made me realize how much of a bitter person I was. For someone reason, we started to talk about bisexual people. She asked me, how I felt about bisexual(s). I believe,being gay myself, that I don't agree with bisexual. I believe a bisexual person is confuse about their own sexuality. Especially if he or she has kids, I felt that if you have one kid then you are experiencing with your sexuality. But, if you have more then one kid like 3 or more, then you know what you like because you keep taking the dick as you don't seem to realize those gay feelings. I just believe IF he or she feels like they might be gay, then before having kids try it out. Because for me its unfair and unrighteousness for that child to have to go through seeing your bisexual ways. Either that child is going to have 2 mothers, 2 fathers, or a mother and a father, but they child shouldn't have to witness seeing soo many males and soo many females in your bisexual life. So I am talking blah, blah, blah, and my friend made me realize that I was bitter and being really judgement only because of my past experience.

She stopped me, and made me come back to reality. She told me that I was being judgmental and bitter because it didn't make any sense to her that a bisexual person had to choice what sex they could be with. Maybe its about what works for them at the point in there life. She also made me realize that why should a bisexual person, have to decided what sex they prefer. Could it be just that person or could it be that journey that lead them to that person. Well o k she had a great point.

Life can lead us onto different direction in life!!! With a clear mind and a open heart this is how I feel today.

I believe, if you want to be bisexual then that is on you. If you like males one day and females another day, then that is also on you. Whatever makes you happy is on you. However, I believe that some bisexual people do give the gay community a bad name. For a fact that for a person who knows they've been gay all their life is hard. Its hard coming out. Its hard to accepting being gay because of society. Its hard being gay. Its hard being bisexual because you like both. Its just hard to understand the gay community if you are NOT gay. I just believe that a person should have more of a respect of being gay or being straight, to me again, it gives the gay community a bad rap, and there are enough challenges for the gay community, without society viewing gays as "confused".

Just coming from past experience and what I had to deal with. Some male and female say their gay for a trend. It just seems like the whole world is going gay. Some males and females will only say that they are gay because of what they have dealt in their past. For example, some males and females will say they are gay because they've been hurt by a male or female, so they will try out this new trend to not think about the pain from getting hurt from their past relationship. So that person will rush to be with someone to fill up the space from hurt, pain, and grief. Which I think many can agree. Still,I have noticed that some males and females will say they are gay only to gain what they want in life such as money, a house, or whatever. I call these gay people fake gay people because they are looking after their on needs and not others. It is hard for me to swallow a fake gay person only because of my own past experience. Which is wrong and selfish. Whose to say these fake gay people will one day receive my best friend karma.

I have to admit to myself that I was speaking from the core of being bitter. I am bitter right now, but bitter will go away in due time. I am only bitter because of what I have went through. I can't say that all women will be like the one I wanted to be in a relationship with because they want be. I can't say, she messed me up or messed up my thinking process because she didn't. She taught me something about relationships. I can't be bitter because she chose to be a fake gay person in the end. But whose to say..what!!!

So in the end yess I got hurt, and yess my feelings were hurt too! So of course whenI speak to others about a subject THAT I have past experience I will speak from past experience but I can't justify what is right and what is wrong. And I can't justify what happen from one person. I can't!! Thats unfair and not fair for the next person who will come into my life.

Whose to say that me and that person who hurt will continue to be friends or not. I believe people change! And when I say I am a person who will be there in the end. I am that person because I am a true friend!!!